This is for you… yes YOU.
You glowing snowflake of a human… i see you.
Do you want to move forward feeling confident and free to be yourself, so you can create the relationship of your dreams?
You want to have a lasting connection, but sometimes the thought of trusting someone with your heart seems impossible.
When you look to past relationships, does it feel like you’ve been with the same person, with different names?
…Maybe one of them stained your memory and made you wonder if true love even exists.
Do you have a hard time standing up for yourself and saying no?
…not just in your partnerships, but in other relationships too?
Do you worry if you put up a boundary you might get hurt in some way?
… so you continue being the peacemaker and people pleaser.
… but it gets exhausting trying to cope and make everyone else happy.
Do you apologize a lot, even when it’s not your fault?
…and find it hard being ok if someone else is not ok?
Does the thought of being vulnerable seem messy and scary?
…You don’t like talking about your emotions and it’s become easier not to show them.
…Yet, you find yourself on a daily basis returning to the same thoughts and conversations in your head while underneath feeling anxious and even depressed sometimes.
Do you wrestle with negative self-talk and think things like…
…“Something is wrong with me.”
…“I’m a burden if I open up and share my emotions.”
…“I don’t matter”
…“It’s never enough.”
Do you self-sacrifice in order to be loved?
…You give a lot but don’t get much back.
…You put in a lot of effort but it feels sometimes like you have little to show for it.
Do you feel like if you don’t help others they don’t love you back?
…It’s like you have to make everyone happy just to survive.
Do you not feel seen, heard, or desired in your relationships?
Are you constantly comparing yourself to other women?
You feel like you have to prove yourself and fight to be seen.
Deep down, are you scared that you're not good enough?
You know that loving yourself where you are today will help fill you up to create a healthy relationship with someone special…
… because you know there’s more out there for you and there’s no need to settle.
You hope to someday (that's not too far off) create a passionate relationship that feels safe, connected, supportive, and is actually reflective of your worth and value.
Hey, I’m Aaron
Here’s one of the biggest lesson’s I’ve learned about relationships…
Everyone’s got a break up story, but it wasn’t until I fell apart over someone that I woke up to a better sense of self-awareness.
I was trying to fit myself inside someone else’s box, so I could be loved.
But it backfired on me.
I remember lying on the floor every Sunday after a long week, constantly wondering what was wrong with me, and how I could win their love back.
Looking back at what went wrong… I tried to please someone else while ignoring my own needs.
I was sacrificing to figure out how to make someone happy.
… feeling disconnected from my emotional needs.
Not knowing how to love myself and I tried to prove my worth to her after the relationship split and she had moved on.
Thoughts of how to love someone the way I thought they needed to be loved had monopolized my mind...
… but it was myself I had to love .
To my friends I sounded like a broken record, and found myself repeating the same things over and over to a therapist.
I felt anxious, depressed, distraught, alone and experienced several anxiety attacks.
I went deep into...
… self-study, therapy, love coaching, spiritual learnings, mindfulness practices and meditation. It was all helpful, yet I often felt small and powerless.
There had to be more to creating a meaningful relationship.
I knew there was something else, and that there had to be more to love.
That’s when I shifted to a mind, body, and soul approach to healing relationships and created Your Empowered Self…
… So you could love yourself more, experience what's possible, and create the relationship of your dreams… without sacrificing your personal freedom.
My Passion and Mission is..
…helping you have more confidence, personal freedom, and be free from unwanted patterns like codependency, people pleasing, and self doubt.
It’s about finding personal freedom, loving yourself, and creating the safe, passionate, exciting, and connected relationship of your dreams.
As a Life, Love, and Trauma-Informed Coach, I’m here to support you.
And when you love yourself, you become a powerful force naturally inviting your partner to do the same and attract the love you desire.
Here’s what my clients have to say…
“Aaron is INCREDIBLE. Aaron has changed my life giving me support and practices to lean on in my life long struggle to love myself and pursue authenticity.
He is genuine, compassionate and patient, while being perceptive of both where to guide me and how to get to the root of a “story” I was telling myself.
I use the practices he has introduced in our sessions daily now, and have made more progress in a short time period with him as my self-love coach than I did in a year and a half of therapy.
His approachable warmth, encouragement, tact and gentle technique with a dash of dry humor makes coaching with him feel like I’m talking to a rad, really grounded friend. I know that when I share a triumph he’s going to celebrate it just as hard as I am, no matter how small.”
- KIRA S.
“Aaron is easy to talk to and deeply interested in learning, helping, and providing the resources and tools to grow. Since working with Aaron, I’ve really found a sense of peace within my life that was previously occupied with self-doubt and anxiety. I can’t recommend enough!”
— TODD L.
“When I think of working with Aaron, the word ‘significant’ is what comes to mind. His life/love coaching has made a significant difference in my life! Each session brought incredible insight into my relationships including the way I viewed myself. I am a more confident person as a result of his coaching. I highly, highly recommend Aaron. The whole process has been life-giving.”
— MARNIE S.
Aaron senses you and gives you appropriate assignments and feedback during sessions. When you follow his instructions, your life improves because YOU make it better. Follow Aaron's guidance because he helps you follow your heart.
- ALEX S.
Hold on this is possible for you..
If you’re like me, you...
Want meaningful relationships that feel connected, kind, and supportive, where you can be your authentic self.
You’re looking for a partner that loves you for who you are, not what you sacrifice.
… and to feel like you’ve moved on from the past.
You dream of living a life full of passion, intimacy, and personal freedom.
You’re weary of not finding a love that will last.
And you still find yourself settling for what you don’t want, because you feel that’s all there is.
But imagine if…
…you could pursue your dreams while having relationships that are passionate and fulfilling.
…you were wealthy with amazing friends and meaningful relationships.
…you felt invigorated, alive, and excited for what's next.
…and calling in your one was light, fun, exciting, and felt like it added more to what you already have.
What if other people saw how much you glow...
…and you have to pinch yourself because it’s almost too good to be true.
Together we can help you…
… not waste time struggling to get your partner to do the inner work and chase down love hacks that don’t work.
…. stop spending unnecessary money on dating apps, impersonal online courses, or worse… divorce.
And instead, get you results!
It’s about finding the freedom to be your most authentic, unapologetic self and be loved for who you are, not for what you sacrifice.
I’m excited to speak with you.
What to expect…
We’re going to talk about where you’re at and what you’ve been going through. Find out what you would love to see happen, and take tangible steps getting there.
This is a customized program to help you with your unique desired outcome.
You might be thinking that This is a Just another “think positive” approach where you’re required to think away your problems.
But There’s more to it than that…
This program will be unique to you with a mind, body, and soul approach that’s non-religious and has effective and tangible action steps to overcome unwanted patterns and create healthy relationships that light you up.
I only work with a few clients at a time, and have just a few spots left!
I’m passionate about helping people who feel stuck in unwanted patterns…break the cycle, love who they are, and move into the relationship of their dreams.
Looking forward to speaking with you and supporting you where you’re at.
Best, Aaron
