Find the freedom to be your most authentic, unapologetic self and attract the love you deserve.
— Aaron Tosti, Self Healing Coach
Aaron’s Unique Coaching Approach
Non- Religious with spiritual ideas & wisdom.
Understanding what's deeply rooted underneath the shallow & petty.
Changing for yourself and that creates a reflection for your partner to do the same.
Integrating mind, body, and soul through Emotional Regulation, Mindfulness + Relationship support.
Effective and tangible action steps to face uncomfortable situations and create healthy deep relationships
How is Coaching Different than Therapy ?
It’s about moving forward into the life and relationships you deserve…
Be seen, heard, & supported in a safe, no BS, non-judgmental space where you collaborate and take action to reach the outcome you desire.
Do you want to move forward feeling confident and free to be yourself, so you can create the relationship of your dreams?
You want to have a lasting connection, but sometimes the thought of trusting someone with your heart seems impossible.
When you look to past relationships, does it feel like you’ve been with the same person, with different names?
…maybe one of them stained your memory and made you wonder if true love even exists.
Do you have a hard time standing up for yourself and saying no?
…not just in your partnerships, but in other relationships too?
Do you worry if you put up a boundary you might get hurt in some way?
… so you continue being the peacemaker and people pleaser.
It gets exhausting trying to cope and make everyone else happy.
Do you apologize a lot, even when it’s not your fault?
…and find it hard being ok if someone else is not ok?
Does the thought of being vulnerable seem messy and scary?
You don’t like talking about your emotions and it’s become easier not to show them.
Yet, you find yourself on a daily basis returning to the same thoughts and conversations in your head while underneath feeling anxious and even depressed sometimes.
Do you wrestle with negative self-talk and think things like…
… “something is wrong with me”
… “I’m a burden if I open up and share my emotions.”
…“I don’t matter”
…“It’s never enough.”
Do you self-sacrifice in order to be loved?
You give a lot but don’t get much back.
And, you put in a lot of effort but it feels sometimes like you have little to show for it.
Do you feel like if you don’t help others they don’t love you back?
It’s like you have to make everyone happy just to survive.
Do you not feel seen, heard, or desired in your relationships?
Are you constantly comparing yourself to others?
You feel like you have to prove yourself and fight to be seen.
Deep down, are you scared that you're not good enough?
You know that loving yourself where you are today will help fill you up to create a healthy relationship with someone special.
… because you know there’s more out there for you and there’s no need to settle.
You hope to someday (that's not too far off) create a passionate relationship that feels safe, connected, supportive, and is actually reflective of your worth and value.
Here’s what my clients have to say…
“Aaron is easy to talk to and deeply interested in learning, helping, and providing the resources and tools to grow. Since working with Aaron, I’ve really found a sense of peace within my life that was previously occupied with self-doubt and anxiety. I can’t recommend enough!”
— TODD L.
“When I think of working with Aaron, the word ‘significant’ is what comes to mind. His life/love coaching has made a significant difference in my life! Each session brought incredible insight into my relationships including the way I viewed myself. I am a more confident person as a result of his coaching. I highly, highly recommend Aaron. The whole process has been life-giving.”
— MARNIE S.
“Aaron is INCREDIBLE. Aaron has changed my life giving me support and practices to lean on in my life long struggle to love myself and pursue authenticity.
He is genuine, compassionate and patient, while being perceptive of both where to guide me and how to get to the root of a “story” I was telling myself.
I use the practices he has introduced in our sessions daily now, and have made more progress in a short time period with him as my self-love coach than I did in a year and a half of therapy.
His approachable warmth, encouragement, tact and gentle technique with a dash of dry humor makes coaching with him feel like I’m talking to a rad, really grounded friend. I know that when I share a triumph he’s going to celebrate it just as hard as I am, no matter how small.”
- KIRA S.
Aaron senses you and gives you appropriate assignments and feedback during sessions. When you follow his instructions, your life improves because YOU make it better. Follow Aaron's guidance because he helps you follow your heart.
- ALEX S.
Are you getting the Kind of Love you’re looking for?
Aaron shares stories from guests, professionals, and his own experience on how to heal relationships and create the kind of love you desire.
