Healing Your Inner Child with Lolita Coppage
In this episode …
Aaron talks with guest Lolita Coppage — writer, truth seeker, and inner child guide — as she shares stories of her 40 year healing journey.
Production by Aaron Tosti
Theme Music by Steve Wilmot
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SHOW NOTES
Intro
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Welcome to TKOL Podcast.. I'm Aaron Tosti.
A while back a good friend of mine said I should write a book called "The kind of love I'm getting I don't want, and the kind of love I want I ain't getting." an autobiography of weird love stories... so I made it into a podcast.
Not only to share my stories, but other peoples stories... maybe even yours.
Love gets weird some times right ? ...tell me about it
Narration
1:30 min
What if the pain you’ve been avoiding is actually the key to your freedom? In today’s episode, I sit down with Lolita Coppage (cop-edge) —writer, truth seeker, and inner child guide —as she takes us on a raw, real, and even a laugh-out-loud funny journey through love, heartbreak, and healing.
From looking back and appreciating young love to noticing patterns of sabotage that kept her circling the similar painful relationships…
and even a moment where she realized her body was holding on to everything she hadn’t yet healed…
Lolita doesn’t just share her stories—she invites us into the messy, beautiful process of waking up of a 40 year journey.
We talk inner child work, the trap of the healing hamster wheel, how community can set you free, and what happens when you finally realize: There’s nothing wrong with you. You are loved for who You are.
Lolita is a longtime family friend, and after we chatted for some time on the day of my moms 80th birthday, I knew she needed to come on The Kind of Love and share her healing journey…
2:46 min
Greeting & Lolita's Serious relationships & catalyst
5:30 min
One of May Wake Up Calls for Lolita
8 min
Lolita’s Funny Dating Story
14:38 min
Lolita Starting to Noticing the Sabotaging Pattern
19:15 min
Getting Married In Vegas Turned out to be a real Scandal
23:45 min
Many Ah-Ha’s along the way of a 40 year healing journey. This time Lolita was taken out of show business.
37:35 min
Embracing your authentic feelings and who you are.
55:40 min
Needing community to Heal, and approaching men healing vs women healing.
74:30 min
Getting off of the “healing hamster wheel”, and the analogy of chasing a snake, rather than removing the poison.
85:05 min
Love and relationship is a choice, and not a requirement in todays world.
88:20 min
You can read Lolita’s Book “Leaves Turn Brown” and hear her song “Is there life after you.”
Closing
88:48 min
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