Listeners are wondering why Aaron says the word “Story” so much on this podcast. This is an episode dedicated to explaining what “You’re always telling yourself a story” actually means. Aaron addresses the way we think and feel, and how that changes the way we go into all of our experiences. It’s a thing behind the thing, kind of a thing.

Aaron dates the girl he thought was the one, but it just didn’t work out. He ends up breaking up with someone he didn’t want to break up with. Aaron became fully aware there was a pattern he had, an internal core belief causing the frustration in his relationship. He had to let go and move forward. 

One nice girl, one mean girl, and some other funny ones. Aaron has to go through a tough relationship to realize he’s worth way more.

Did you have those relationships where you look back and realize, man I was a real turd? “I did not make great decisions.” I had to really look back and ask, “Why was I drawn to someone that treated me like I was worthless? Why didn’t I listen to my friend? Why did I have the blinders on? What’s the deal Aaron? Come on man. “ 

You know when someone is wrong for you when you completely loose yourself over them. You compromise yourself and your identity for them. And you don’t even listen to your close friends that care about you. 

In this episode we talk about some weird stories and how I came to more awareness about myself. 

From Aaron caring about what she looks like, to having a savior complex, and then getting passed trying to find “the one”. 

On this first Episode we are going to be unpacking some stories of mine that are what I like to call a weird haunted past. And, How I came to a greater awareness in love. How I had to shift and reframe my now love story. 

And to help me do that I’ve invited my good friend, Josh Hernandez. He has been a long time friend, a buddy, at one time a church mentor. He’s known me since I’v been dating. He’s been a constant in my life. Welcome Josh Hernandez, and some weird stuff about me. 

When we're motivated by love rather than fear the story begins to shift and change. 

This is a shout out to anyone who's struggled in toxic relationships or had self-sabotaging behaviors that have led them to the love they DON'T want.

Join Aaron in the journey of deconstructing love, then reframing and reimagining the love that you DO want.